President Donald Trump and wife Melania arrived in France early on Thursday, July 13, to attempt to strengthen ties between the two countries and to celebrate Bastille Day with President Emmanuel Macron and his wife, Brigitte. And the firstmeeting did not go well.
The initial greeting between Trump and Brigitte Macronwas, in itself, awkward.
But then Trump crossed a line.
He turned to Macronand said, You’re in such good shape. Then he turned to Emmanuel Macron and confirmed, She’s in such good physical shape. Then to Macronagain, Beautiful.
One can assume that he was also implicitly commenting on the infamous 24-year age difference between Brigitteand Emmanuel Macron. (She was his 39-year-old schoolteacher when they met.) There’s a hint of incredulity with which Trump commented on her physiquethat implied, .
And he often talks about women in terms of physical appearance, including his recent remarks aboutMika Brzezinski and that strange encounter he had with an Irish reporter a few weeks ago, in which Trumpcomplimented a female reporter’s smile.
I’m automatically attracted to beautiful I just start kissing them. It’s like a magnet. Just kiss. I don’t even wait. And when you’re a star, they let you do it. You can do anything.
Grab ’em by the p*ssy. You can do anything.
And now, he has focused on Macron’sphysique.
To talk about a head of state’s wife in such a sexist manner and in public, with cameras around, no less seems to show how little respect he has for anyone or anything but his own impulses and entitlement.
And when you compare how he talks about (and insults) men, versus how he talks about (and insults) women, the difference is clear: to Donald Trump, women are mere bodies to be consumed and enjoyed or rejected.He has called women fat pigs in the past, and when Miss Universe Alicia Machado gained 12 pounds,he reportedly called her Miss Eating Machine and told her that her weight gain interfered with her duties.
It’s difficult to imagine him talking about President Macron in the same way, complimenting his slender figure.
There is animplicit sexism in discussing women’s appearances, scrutinizing them in a way that often reduces them down to just looks, professional accomplishments be damned. And Trump’s comments are more than just embarrassingly tone deaf.
They speak to a larger culture his administration seems to be pushing. Sexual assault guidances through Title IX meant to protect survivors and prevent more assaults in schools are at risk. Planned Parenthood’s funding is at risk. Access to birth control is at risk. Trump haspreviously disclosed that he thinks women who get abortions should be punished. Women are at risk.
These are not words. These are the words of a man who wields unparalleled power, and he is using that power to reduce women to just their bodies.